Life Vest

My life has become more crazy than what it was before. And I didn't think that was even possible! I'm working now, seeing my therapist, and nutritionist once a week. Yes I finally got a nutrtionist. She's nice but she also struggles with ed, so at times it can be triggering. For instance, today I saw her and last week she blind weighed me. Well today I gave her a smirk and got on the scale, thinking she would forget and she didn't but she let me see it anyway. She keeps getting pissed at me because the past two weeks I have lost weight. Which today she told me the amount I lost, and honestly it's not that much. so it's not a big deal...well according to her it is, when "you're not suppose to be losing any" But what I really like about her is that she emphazies the words "try" and "attempt" rather than do, so I don't feel as much as a failure. Therapy is getting intense, we are talking about some hardcore problems and my mom for some reason thinks that im not talking about my "real issues". Hello, it's my therapy session, let me talk about what I want to talk about...(hello ed) I don't know why, but my mom is for some reason a huge trigger to me. Everytime I talk to her I feel frustrated, and upset. She only comes to me when she has a problem with something I said or did. So that is the NUMBER ONE reason why I am clinging on to ed. Because otherwise, she would never come to me...also a huge role in my feeling "not good enough" I was suppose to go to my dad's this past weekend and shocker...it didn't work out. And my mom is convinced that I am the one creating drama about it because I cried for two dayys...well im sorry do you know how shitty it feels to feel rejected by your own father over and over again? To feel like you are grieving for someone but that someone is still alive? but wants absolutely nothing to do with you, because they are too sick in their drinking? (on a side note...my nutritionist today told me that since my dad is a alcholic I have the genes so I have to work twice as hard to overcome ed-sounds promising. I think its already hard enough no, lets add this in too) Speaking of Ed....well he is completely in control the past month or so now. I have been restricting and being called on it and it pisses me off so what do I do, I get rid of it. Yes I do realize im truely only hurting myself. By try convincing me that when Im in the moment...I went two weeks without cutting and that's gone now. Ive been fantastizing about my death. Thinking how would people react if they found me one day in my room. I feel like I am floating in the water, with a life vest holding onto it for dear life, and a hellicopter comes to save me and I tell them that I can't let go of my life vest (ed) and they say then we can't help you and fly off.